Reader Questions: How Do I Create a Healthy Romantic Relationship?
Hi, I came across your blog when I was searching for some solutions to a challenge I am trying to overcome (have no idea how to put it any other way).
I fell in love with my boyfriend not too long ago in Costa Rica, and I am currently back in my home country working to get more money and maintaining a long-distance relationship with him until I come back at the end of the year. He and I have a strong connection. We feel each other when we are not in each other’s presence and can communicate our feelings telepathically. It is the best feeling I have ever had with someone, and I know I want to be with him.
I notice that we need some guidance on how to maintain our relationship. Could you point me toward more reading material, blogs, or legitimate sources of information that can help us on the right path? I notice that he and I are sometimes sharing a lot of stress with each other, and it’s detrimental to our connection and hurts my confidence. I know you’re not a relationship counselor (not asking for that anyway!) but just need some resources on how we can proceed.
Sorry if this is super weird, but I just had to ask! It’s so hard to find legitimate guidance. Any spiritual texts you would recommend would really help as well.
Thanks,
Sarah K.
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When you feel love for another person, especially romantic love, you become attached to the safety and well-being of that person. You care what happens to them, what they do, what they think, and how they feel about you. Because of this, that person’s safety becomes your concern.
The concern you feel causes your energy field to connect to that person, sending a stream of energy into their aura that binds you together. These streams, known as psychic ties or links, function as a two-way street for energy and information to flow between you. This is what enables you to feel your loved one’s state of being, regardless of proximity.
While these ties are a natural way to establish a loving partnership, over time they can potentially become a burden for one or both of you as the compounding emotions and stresses of two people build up within your shared field of energy. If left unchecked, the emotional build-up can overwhelm and destroy a relationship.
A psychic link can also cause a symbiotic, co-dependent situation to form, where one party is siphoning energy away from the other. This can deplete a person, resulting in lethargy, restriction in life, accidents, bad luck, and even illness. This is why the establishment and maintenance of energetic boundaries in close relationships are a necessity.
The good news is that it’s very easy to create and maintain healthy connections with others. Created to work on your unseen energy field, here is a simple visualization technique that does the trick:
Psychic Links and Soul Relationships
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